Before asking for a girl, it is required that the girl to be asked be from a noble family. For this purpose, the girl's family is learned by asking around. The same applies to the girl's side. If the girl's family likes it, they go to see the girl.

The boy's mother, his relatives, and himself go to see the girl. If they like the girl, it's time to ask for the girl. Well-known people from the area and the boy's father go to ask for the girl. The family from whom the girl is going to be asked is informed in advance. After chatting for a while, the main topic comes up and the person who wants the girl says, "We want your daughter for our son, according to God's command and the Prophet's words." The girl's family states that they want to think for a while. During this time, the girl's opinion is taken and relatives are consulted. After this, a day is given to the boy's house, it is stated that on this day the girl is given, the sweets brought by the visitors are eaten, this is called mouth dessert.

On a later day, acquaintances from the surrounding area are invited and a second big dessert ceremony is organized. The purpose of this is for families to get to know each other.